The Terrifying Birth Mom Boogey-Man

Posted by on May 10, 2013 in Adoption, Be Informed, Featured Posts | 0 comments

The Terrifying Birth Mom Boogey-Man

Amber, from Bumber’s Bumblings is back with us today to share an incredible post her son’s birth-mom Ash wrote for her a while back on just one of the misconceptions people have about birth-parents.  Ash writes honestly and candidly about one of her biggest frustrations when it comes to what people ask her and assume about her when it comes to being a birth-mom.  We’re...

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Open Adoption Chose Us

Posted by on Feb 1, 2013 in Adoption, Be Informed, Featured Posts | 1 comment

Open Adoption Chose Us

Over the last three years I’ve talked a lot about our open adoption.  To anyone that asks, and really……to anyone that doesn’t.  Because I love it and I’m proud of it and it’s kind of like sharing my labor story–just without epidurals, and ice diapers (I’ve heard about these from my brave friends), and extreme physical pain.  And naturally, what...

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Spina Bifida, Adoption, and Sofi Rose…

Posted by on Nov 8, 2012 in Adoption, Be Informed, Special Needs | 0 comments

Spina Bifida, Adoption, and Sofi Rose…

Adoption.  My husband and I always thought adoption was an amazing thing.  For other people.  We have five beautiful boys, and our plate is full.  Our oldest is eighteen and our youngest is almost six.  We have battled ADD with our oldest son and are currently on quite a journey with our youngest son who has Spina Bifida.  You can read about him here. When  we were in the beginning stages...

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Open Adoption Chose Us.

Posted by on Oct 5, 2012 in Adoption, Be Informed | 0 comments

Open Adoption Chose Us.

This post was originally published over at Pink Shoes.  However, in the last week I’ve received a number of e-mails from individuals regarding their readiness to adopt……and the reality of what an open adoption can and does look like.  My hope in sharing it here too, is that more families will feel free to be honest about their apprehensions regarding the domestic adoption...

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Mom Profile: Ashley Milford

Posted by on Aug 11, 2012 in Adoption, Be Informed, MCG Moms, Mom Profiles | 0 comments

Mom Profile: Ashley Milford

What are the ages/gender of your children? We have 3 girls. My oldest is is 8 1?2, then 5, and the youngest is 4 1?2 (and you have to include the 1?2s. They are super important.). No you did not read that wrong. My youngest two are 6 months and 3 days apart due to the wonderful thing called adoption. How do you spend your time? I wake up early because I love the quiet in the...

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The Daily Choice

Posted by on Aug 10, 2012 in Adoption, Be Informed | 3 comments

Today’s guest contributor is Ashley Milford, who not only writes about her family at TM5, but is also involved with The Sparrow Fund, The Voice of the Orphan, and owns a baby shop called Baby Bobo. She took time out from her busy schedule to share a post with us about sisterhood, adoption, and the meaning of family. Some days I stumble upon a scene like this one and it makes my heart...

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The Adoptive & Foster Parent Guide {A Book Review & Give-Away}

Posted by on Aug 8, 2012 in Adoption, Be Informed, Be Inspired, Books for Moms, Featured Posts | 13 comments

The Adoptive & Foster Parent Guide {A Book Review & Give-Away}

One of our new sponsors this month, Carol Lozier, is the author of a fantastically practical, applicable, and informative book on being an adoptive or foster parent. And while I will sing the merits of this book if you do happen to be an adoptive or foster parent I would also encourage any parent who might be struggling with a child who is demonstrating aggressive behavior, attachment issues, or...

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The Scar

Posted by on Aug 3, 2012 in Adoption, Be Informed, Featured Posts | 1 comment

The Scar

I was washing Li’l Empress’ face the other day after a particularly messy bout with a “peeder budder and jelly sammich.”  I took an extra breath of a moment to study her face, lingering over her deep, bottomless black-brown eyes and her sweet little rosebud lips. And the scar just under her lower lip. The scar that halts my admiration of her beauty and her sweetness every...

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Orphan Care

Posted by on Jul 13, 2012 in Adoption, Be Informed | 2 comments

Orphan Care

This week our guest mom writer shares her heart on orphan care.  Melissa is both an adoptee and an adoptive mom.  Her piece has made me think more about adoption and the relinquishment that goes along with adoption than I have in a long time.  She says she wants to make sure, “…….that people do not take lightly the act of severing a biological relationship and I also...

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Birth-Mother’s Day: Celebrating moms and open adoption.

Posted by on Jun 13, 2012 in Adoption, Be Informed, Featured Posts | 0 comments

Birth-Mother’s Day: Celebrating moms and open adoption.

Earlier this month, adoptive mom, Amber shared with us how fulfilling the journey of open adoption has been for her, her husband, her son, and her son’s birth-mom.  This past Mother’s Day she wanted to make sure she was able to have some alone time with her son, B’s, birth mom Ash.  Two friends hanging out, two women who have walked through a lot of life, and two...

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